Monday, 15 September 2014

Changing demographics…

In response to a recent birthday (nothing too dramatic numerically speaking), I updated my age on Grindr.  I only added two years, but am now approached on a daily basis by guys seeking some sort of father figure.  It seems to be split between those wishing to be dominated or (more rarely) dominate, and range in age from 19 – 37 (?!?!?).  Requests (in order of creepiness), have been as follows;  1) to befriend my children so that he can then be molested by “a friends father”.  2) for me to bring along some of my teenage child's underwear for him to wear as I discipline him.  3) to be spanked then raped.  4) to be tied up then raped.  5) to bring a friend “as old as possible” and gang-bang him.  6) to call him “son” as I face fuck him.  7) to offer up my ass to him “and some friends”.  8) mutual spanking and reciprocal fucking.  9) to be taken to McDonalds after sex and 10) “just to cuddle”.

Fuckin’ weird right?  Personally, I find roleplay exhausting, and struggle to keep a straight face when obliged to do so.  The idea of actualizing my kids in this, or fetishizing their belongings repulses me, and I have been quick to tell these guys so, before blocking them. Not even to mention that I would yet to hit puberty to have sired the 37y.o. guy!  What's kinda sad is how troubled they are, and how many of them there seem to be.

The Dad seekers who aren't at the extreme spectrum are an interesting bunch.
Rest assured my caffeine and nicotine heavy diet keeps me out of the gym, so it’s all about the gene pool  - Mère Liggett is quick to remind anyone listening that she modeled for Horst.
(Once.  60 years back.  Let it go fer chrissakes!).
Anyway - this new set of “admirers” is repeatedly disappointed I do not look like their idea of a Dad, and I am rejected as I am neither grey nor fat.  Those that take me on my looks tend to get weirded out when they ‘discover’ my age.  It’s too sad to be one of those guys that are 48 & dress 28, so I see no point in pretending or acting like anything other than what I am (or even changing my online age back).

I mean, really, what is one supposed to do?  Regular readers will know it’s been some
weeks since an update, and I’m tired of solo pleasures! 

4 comments:

  1. I feel like I'm at an awkward age even in my late thirties. Guys my age think I look too young and the 21 year olds call me daddy. Make up your minds! I don't care but I need to know how to effectively market myself! Ha!

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  2. Fundamentally you're spot on. This really is more of a branding issue than anything else. But why do I need to do that? What happened to meeting as equals for a mutually enjoyable time?

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  3. I encounter similar since i'm black and over 39. I have a conservative exterior with a younger look. Not fat, little to no gray hair and nice looking. I find that a lot of guys are looking for a thug type which is not me. All I want to do is suck their cock. Lol
    BlkJack

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  4. I encounter similar since i'm black and over 39. I have a conservative exterior with a younger look. Not fat, little to no gray hair and nice looking. I find that a lot of guys are looking for a thug type which is not me. All I want to do is suck their cock. Lol
    BlkJack

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